Alpha Jorge here, and welcome to another entry here on my blog where I share with you all of my conquests and insights as an Alpha.
Today I want to cover one common mistake I see all betas make at one point or another when serving an Alpha. I'll give you it a hint: it has nothing to do with you.
The common mistake I see betas make time and time again is when they begin serving Alphas with the expectancy or entitlement that this arrangement is all about you.
As an Alpha who has utilized betas for over a decade now, I can tell you a few things about who you are as a beta:
And those are all excellent needs for you to have. They are part of what makes a great beta because we benefit from those needs. However, don't make the mistake of prioritizing certain needs you may have over an Alpha's own wants, needs or desires.
The common mistake I see betas make time and time again is to begin serving Alphas with the expectancy or entitlement that this is all about you. Serving an Alpha is not about you, your needs, your wants or your desires.
Alpha Jorge
You see, here's the thing: serving Alphas has nothing to do with you or your needs. Instead, serving Alphas is all about ourselves. It is about our needs, our wants, and our desires.
For example, if you're attracted to an Alpha's feet and the Alpha you serve enjoys receiving foot massages from you, that's fantastic.
However, if you're attracted to feet but the Alpha you serve has no desire for you to massage, lick or come close to his feet, then this is a boundary you need to respect. A need or desire you have as a beta never trumps the needs or desires from an Alpha.
So Betas, listen up!
When serving an Alpha, remember that everything you do is for us and our pleasure only. While you may be aroused at some of the things we enjoy receiving from you (a relaxing foot massage, deep throat expertise only a beta can give, etc.) these will not always align with what you need or want.
And you know what, beta? That's okay because again, this isn't about you.
Learn to receive pleasure by providing us with pleasure. This isn't too hard to do because after all, betas want to serve superior men. You want to be given orders and led by us. It's just the natural order of things. Its the Male Hierarchy.
So now you know one common mistake you can avoid making as a beta. Be sure to implement it.
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Till next time, betas
Love reading your blog Sir. My master uses me as his domestic slave often ignoring me or having me work while he is away or even just sleeping. I may or may not be allowed to interact with him even though I desperately want to. He has made it clear that he sees me as his property there for him to use and interactions with me are not really needed other then to give orders. When not In use he places me in an unused room or has me kneel nearby quietly for his convenience. Sometimes dismissed when my chores are done sometimes kneeling unused just to be dismissed later. The whole time I am desperate to kiss his feet, be his foot stool, have him pet me like a dog, take his piss or be used for his sexual pleasure.
I never bother him with any of my desires because he has trained me to act as you have described docile and subservient to his needs and desires and to put them above my own. It wasn’t always this way he use to spend more time with me even a little romantic at times. Over the years he has disciplined me when needed and sat me down for talks about how to behave, how I did something that displeased or inconvenience him. These talks often ended with me ass up head down as he whipps me. His whipping me made me more submissive and my desire to please him is always greatest after he has punished me. I feel it also made him more dominate and cemented my roll as just his slave. In his words he now sees me as his slave property and enjoys using me for that purpose. He said it feels right to him to be served and obeyed by a slave. It feels right to me as well to serve him, obey him and to kneel thinking only about how to serve him better. He said to me that or relationship has grown into a proper Master slave relationship and he sees me in that light and will treat me accordingly.
I guess my point is that even if I just clean his house and and dismissed never even seeing him. My pleasure is in knowing he will come home to a clean place never having to do anything and can rest and relax as he should. At one time I would resent these times but he is correct, with his help I have evolved into a better slave and see that his needs are all that matter to both of us and we are both happiest when properly fulfilling our rolls as Master and servant.